The Best 30th Anniversary Gift Ideas and Party Planning Tips
Traditionally known as the pearl wedding anniversary, your 30th wedding anniversary deserves all the attention it can get. After all, you’ve got a lot to celebrate! You’ve created memories spanning over three decades, your kids are probably all grown up, and you’ve built a solid relationship.
30 years of marriage is a major milestone, so a festive celebration is definitely due! Read on for the perfect traditional anniversary gifts for her, the best gifts for parents, top romantic anniversary ideas, plus a look at the meaning of the pearl milestone.
Long-lasting and ever-growing, the 30th anniversary signifies a deep bond, a solid relationship molded by experiences and perfected in time. Sounds similar to a pearl! As the traditional symbol of the 30th anniversary, pearls (from the white variety to black gemstones like Tahitian Pearls) represent everlasting love, purity and grace. After all, pearls are strongly connected with the idea of love. The legend says that Cleopatra herself crushed a large pearl, then drank it, in a gesture meant to show Marc Anthony her everlasting love.
If you’re sticking with tradition, there’s no doubt about it: pearl jewelry is the go-to gift for this major milestone. But if you are on the hunt for present ideas with a more modern twist, we’ve got you covered.
Before we get into the 30th anniversary gift ideas, here is a breakdown of some of the symbols of this special celebration:
| Traditional 30th Anniversary Gift | Pearl |
| Modern 30th Anniversary Gift | Diamond |
| Gemstone | Pearl |
| Flower | Lily |
| Color | Green |
Lustrous, memorable, and symbolizing elegance and tradition, pearls are the ultimate 30th anniversary gift!
Discover the beauty with our collection of bestsellers, including premium quality pearl necklaces, baroque pearls, studs and dangle pearl earrings. Browse our range of anniversary jewelry, including classic designs, double pearl necklaces and bracelets and GIA certified pearl necklaces to find your perfect pearl gift!
When talking about gifts for her, it doesn’t get more traditional than pearl anniversary gifts. A beautiful pearl (or more) is the classic 30th wedding anniversary gift. Plus, it makes a great addition to her jewelry box. Delight your loved one with a stunning pearl necklace featuring classic white South Sea pearls, aka the most valuable gems of the sea available on the market. Classic. Elegant. Charming.
A pearl necklace offered on this special occasion is the perfect heirloom piece to be passed to the next generations of lucky wearers. And, if you really want to enhance her glow, opt for a classic combo for the pearl wedding anniversary: diamond anniversary gifts enriched with gems of the sea such as Akoya pearls or South Sea. If you’re opting for diamond jewelry like a diamond ring, make sure it features a stunning pearl as well. To find out more about pearl color options, watch our video below.
Our Pick: The 9-12mm White South Sea Pearl Necklace-AAAA Quality
Find your dream pearls in our premium collection of Pearl Necklaces. For a timelessly elegant look, a classic strand is the top choice, while single pearl necklaces are the right pick for a modern, minimalist look.
And if you’re looking for a 30th wedding anniversary gift, have your pick from traditional white, soft pink, peach, silver, black or gold pearls and classic or modern designs, all at 70% off retail prices.
If classic whites are not her style, aim for the perfect anniversary gift for her combo: pearls and diamonds. When it comes to anniversary gift ideas, this combo is the ideal merge between traditional and modern. After all, who can resist classic diamond jewelry adorned with precious gems of the sea?
And while white gems might be the go-to choice for most, but nothing compares with the enigmatic charm of Black Tahitian Pearls for an added touch of mystery to an evening look. Stunning settings for dangly earrings include white, yellow and rose gold, each glamorous in their own way. To complete the gift, browse meaningful and unique anniversary cards for that special final touch.
Our Pick: The Tahitian South Sea Pearl & Diamond Serena Earrings
There is no better way to surprise your special someone on your 30th wedding anniversary than with a gift they can enjoy and cherish forever. The Pearl Source’s Pearl Necklaces come in the widest range of colors, pearl sizes and lengths, catering to every customer and all special occasions.
Chose from our many types of necklaces: Japanese Akoya Pearls to accompany a power suit, Freshwater pearls for subtle, radiant charm, or Golden Pearls, ideal for a formal event. Pearls make ideal 30th anniversary gifts, as well as fantastic gifts for grandma and bridesmaid proposal gifts to celebrate important milestones.
Pearls are the classic go-to choice for the 30th anniversary – and the next in line is their mother – literally. Mother of pearl is currently trending, which works in your favor when on the hunt for the perfect iridescent nacre gift.
Avoid the faux mother of pearl and shell items on the market and go for the real thing when shopping for your love. Whether that’s a mother of pearl serving bowl, a slim belt with a nacre buckle or a chic shell clutch, ideal for destination weddings on the beach – your other half will definitely cherish it.
Our Pick: The Shell Clutch Macabebe
When classic pearls feel a bit too predictable for your tastes, then opt for a gift with an unexpected twist: pearl beauty products. There is a wide range of pearl items on the market, just perfect for your special day. Pearls, pearl powder and everything else pearl, from highlighters to face masks, are currently giving the beauty industry an upgrade.
Join the craze and delight your loved one with a must-have pearl powder beauty product channeling the magic of freshwater pearls. Bonus points: it promises to offer that iridescent glow of the treasure of the seas.
Our Pick: The BECCA Pearl Glow Luster Glow Powder
A traditional gift doesn’t have to mean a predictable gift! This next pearl anniversary gift will dazzle her, and show her how much you love her style.
Consider forgoing classic round, white pearls, and opting for a radiant gold! Instead of the traditional look, embrace the golden glam of South Sea Pearls in one-of-a-kind baroque shapes.
Our Pick: The 10-11mm Baroque Shaped Golden South Sea Pearl Bracelet
Your other half deserves the best. For your 30th wedding anniversary, offer her the gift of glamour! Golden Pearls have the power to transform any outfit with a glamorous dose of shine and warmth.
The best pearl wedding anniversary gifts are ones that stand the test of time. Discover our Golden Pearl Necklaces, Bracelets, different types of Earrings, Pearl Rings and Pendants. And golden pearls make stunning gifts, even beyond your 30th anniversary! From pearl engagement rings to gifts for your mom, golden pearls will create a truly memorable celebration.
When shopping for pearl anniversary gifts for him, stick with the classics. Neutral tones, versatile pieces and timeless elegance simply can’t miss the mark for your 30th anniversary. This unique piece respects the traditional theme—pearls—but with an unexpected twist.
He probably already owns a staple everyday watch, so how about an anniversary special piece featuring mother of pearl? It’s elegant and it adds a subtle shimmer to a day-to-night look.
Celebrating 30 years of marriage calls for a touch of sophistication. Elevate his dapper appeal in one go with a unisex golden pearl neck piece. Suitable for weekend wear and casual daytime looks, a solitary pearl necklace makes a unique style statement. A classic 30th anniversary gift for an equally classy 30th wedding anniversary.
Some of the best gift ideas are the ones your other half will get to use every day. From the anniversary presents for him that stand the test of time collection: a classic fountain pen in a luxurious finish.
Upgrade his office supplies with a gorgeous mother of pearl pen—the kind of git he can use for years to come. Meticulously built, strong and resilient—this gift is just like your long-lasting relationship.
Our pick: The Laban Mother of Pearl Fountain Pen
Meet the perfect accessory for a smart-casual look that’s effortlessly trendy, fresh and timeless. For a gentleman with a flair of jewelry and accessories, it doesn’t get any better than this. For your 30th anniversary, delight your husband with a pearl bracelet, perfect for layering with leather bracelets or a daytime watch.
Our Pick: The Tahitian Round Pearl Rubber Bracelet
30 years of marriage need to be celebrated in style! Some of the best gift ideas are no-fuss. Streamlined, classy, and elegant to no end, stylish husbands deserve equally stylish wedding anniversary gifts.
For your pearl anniversary, upgrade his formal suit with the perfect tie pin enriched with a crisp white pearl, ideal for nighttime attire, weddings and special occasions – like your anniversary party.
Our Pick: The Sophie Breitmeyer Tie Pin with Pearl
FUN FACT: A Taiwanese couple who celebrated their 86th anniversary together in 2003 hold the record for the longest married couple in the world.
When shopping for your parents or a couple celebrating their 30th anniversary, the décor / home isle is the best place to start. Special memories need to be shared – and the best way to help the happy couple do so is with the help of elegant photo frames, crafted from iridescent mother of pearl. 30th anniversary gifts don’t need to be over-complicated or overly expensive – and an iridescent pearly touch goes a long way.
If you’re hunting for the perfect gift for parents that is both practical and aesthetically pleasing, settle on mother of pearl. Upgrade their tablescape game with a set of nacre coasters, ideal for the couple who loves to host. Alternatively, pair up your present with a set of gorgeous cutting boards to match the elegant 30th anniversary theme.
Our Pick: Mother-of-Pearl Coaster Box Set
Not too thrilled about mainstream gifts for parents? No worries. 30 years calls for a making a major statement, so feel free to get creative. Handmade and personalized gifts—like personalized jewelry—are a great choice for the couple who has it all. For an artsy couple, don’t be afraid of thinking out of the box. Opt for a unique gift that makes a statement!
Our Pick: The Anniversary Pearl Wire Tree
A 30th anniversary gift to remember: elegant napkin rings. Talking about an elevated tablescape, gift the lovely couple a set of pearl napkin rings, perfect for their anniversary party ahead.
Perfect as gifts for parents, napkin rings add that touch of elegant glam to dinner parties. And, this beauty comes adorned with two pearls in a sleek yellow gold finish. The verdict: a modern 30th anniversary present with a spin on the classics.
If you’re not opting for traditional pearls or natural nacre, you can still gift the happy couple a memorable present by choosing pearly finishes. Anything that comes in the classic ivory or pearly white hues, complete with that pearly iridescence makes a great 30th anniversary gift.
Start with handmade ceramic bowls, a set of gourmet knives or a new shimmery memory box in a beautiful pearl finish.
Our Pick: The Pearl Glaze Anniversary Bowls
FUN FACT: On the 30th anniversary, a couple has been married for 10,950 days or 262,800 hours or 15,768,000 minutes, which is over 946 million seconds.
The 30th anniversary milestone definitely deserves a festive celebration! And that’s whether you’re planning on renewing your vows, celebrating your own marriage, or organizing a surprise anniversary party for your parents. From finding the perfect 30th anniversary gift to the party, a pearl theme is all you need to make it memorable.
And the best decor theme is clear: opt for a pearl anniversary party. Let the gorgeous pearls be your inspo and go for a glam white or ivory party, with additional pastel shades of blush pink and a touch of greenery. Think iridescence, elegant glam, and pearly hues, all accompanied by the mandatory lush blooms: lilies.
Here are some inspiration notes for planning your perfect pearl shindig!
The Aesthetic: A modern theme with a touch of glam & whimsy
The Color Palette: Ivory, white, blush, natural green & pops of gold
The Flowers: Traditional 30th anniversary lilies
The Tablescape: Mother of pearl serving plates, pearl napkin rings, matching coasters and lily centerpieces in slim vases
The Cake: Simple, elegant, decorated with sugar pearls
The Centerpieces: Delicate lilies in ivory hues
The Venue Décor: Ivory candles, pearl fairy lights and crisp white balloons symbolizing pearls
Remember to keep our to-do List at hand! That way, you can stay focused on the things that need your attention prior to the fabulous festivities.
If you’re trying to think of entertainment ideas that are equally as fun as they are sentimental, read on:
You’ve given your gifts and thrown the party, but the celebration isn’t over! To truly show your love, why not plan some extra activities to mark the milestone. Here are some romantic anniversary activityies to help celebrate in style:
The traditional 30th anniversary gift is pearls, which is why pearl necklaces, pearl bracelets and rings are the most popular gift choices for ladies. The traditional 30th anniversary gift for men include pearl tiepins or mother of pearl cufflinks.
The 30 year anniversary is known as the Pearl Wedding. Long-lasting, solid and signifying a strong bond, the 30th wedding anniversary is represented by the symbol of wisdom, purity and love: the pearl.
Traditional gifts for men on the 30th anniversary include the symbol of the milestone: pearls. Special gifts include pearl tiepins, pearl or mother of pearl cufflinks and mother of pearl watches.
And there you have it: everything from the best anniversary gifts for him, the most elegant 30th anniversary gifts for her and the perfect gifts for parents. And even more, a range of fun anniversary ideas to do and plan for your 30th milestone, plus tips on planning the anniversary party of your dreams. Above all, make sure to fully enjoy the special event with your loved ones!
A special wedding anniversary gift carries a personal touch. Design the jewelry piece of your dreams for that special anniversary with our Pearl Moments Collection. Customized to perfection and catered to the wearer’s needs and desires, our collection allows you to create that one-of-a-kind heirloom jewelry piece.
Enjoy life’s biggest moments while wearing nature’s finest gems. Elegant, refined and simply unique – the perfect addition to anyone’s jewelry box.
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Carla Jonas is a content writer and editor at leading pearl retailer The Pearl Source. Passionate about everything jewelry, décor and fashion-related, Carla is ready to bring you the latest on what to wear, hot trends, style tips and more.
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